Timing Life Lessons: Not Losing Stuff

“Papa, why do you always put the remote control in the same spot?”
“So I always know where to find it…”

Kinda completely unlike her hair brush, which sometimes disappears for days! (and I’m good at finding stuff)
We’ve now (once again) agreed on a standard location for the hair brush, and so far it’s working. When I’ve tried that previously, it didn’t. So I think the above question came with an insight… she figured it out.

As a parent, I’m often tempted to add a lesson to a situation. But in practice, I find that it tends to have little if any effect. From observation, kids appear to ask the right questions when they’re ready for the answer, so I just have to be more patient.

Chess Miss Phoebe

Yep, five years old and now playing chess. since yesterday (31 Oct 2010, for the record). Why not. I’d put out a chess set on my coffee table, part decoration & part to see what she’d think about it (or for others on the pot luck night to play)… and within several hours Phoebe asked me to teach her. Ok!

We first went over the names of the pieces and their basic moves… of course you can make up a cool story about a castle, so that’s all pretty easy to remember. The moves are not too difficult except for the knight (horse) which can be a bit tricky to get right.

We’ve already played two games since, and she’s doing pretty well. With her story mind, she’s decided she doesn’t like the bishops much and so she’s giving them away early on in the game. I said that’s probably not a good idea as she might need those pieces even if she don’t like them – but heck she can play lots and figure it all out in her own way. Exploring is fun, and using your brain at the same time is fabulous!

(apparently my good friend Georg Richter -chess grand master or somesuch- started at age 4, so there ya go)